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02 February 2011 @ 09:47 pm
Rival-rama: Day 1 (Psst... there's a Giveaway!)  
We now are officially two weeks away from when my debut novel starts showing up in bookstores, shipping from Amazon, etc. Eek!  If you're new to my corner of the blogosphere, then you might now know that my book is called RIVAL. It's the story of Brooke and Kathryn, two girls--once friends, now enemies--who are getting ready to go up against each other in a major singing competition.

Whenever people are in the spotlight, striving to be and do their best, rivalries are bound to happen. Rivalries are dramatic, juicy, sometimes humorous and often painful for those involved. My book explores how rivalry affects two young singers, but rivalry isn’t limited to the arts. Every other day until February 16, I’ll be featuring famous rivalries from history, sports, pop culture and other public pursuits. If you’ve ever had a rival, maybe you’ll recognize yourself. Or maybe you’ll just be glad you never went to the lengths some of these people did to put themselves on top.

Rival-rama Rivalry #1: Rachel Berry vs. Everybody 


How about we start with one from the pop culture zeitgeist? (Did I even use that word, Zeitgeist correctly? I have no idea...) This is the rivalry that most mirrors my own experiences in high school. While RIVAL focuses on intense competition between two girls, I was more likely to be rivals with several people, either at once or at different times, depending what was going on in our highly competitive music program.

If it was time to audition for the top choirs or for leads in the school musical, my rivals were the girls who had voice types and performing styles similar to mine. If it was contest time, my rivals were other singers—male and female--who might get a 1 (the highest score), while I feared getting a 2 or less. In general, I worried about getting left behind, not being recognized as one of the elite. That’s why I identify so much with Rachel, the diva from Fox’s hit show “Glee.”

Episode to episode, Rachel is seen defending her turf against any and all of her fellow glee club members.  Anybody who might get a solo over Rachel (even the adorable and deserving Kurt) has to contend with Ms. Berry’s petulant and ungracious behavior—she may even demand a sing-off.

The writers have softened Rachel’s character a bit lately, but often she's someone you love to hate. I really liked the episode where Mr. Shuester gave a solo to Tina because he felt she needed a boost to her self esteem while Rachel needed to be taken down a peg.  Rachel was so horrible about it that she about drove Mr. Shue (and me as a viewer) to distraction. I believe that was the episode where she actually quit the glee club.

Was I as obnoxious as Rachel back in high school? I don’t know. I never marched into our choir director’s office and demanded the spotlight. I don’t think I ever forced any of my fellow singers to do their best “Defying Gravity” against me. But I suspect there were a fair number of people who were like, “Oh man, Sara Bennett AGAIN? Can’t somebody else get featured for a change?”

The fear of falling short, of not measuring up, of not being the best is powerful—especially when the arena is as public, with as many opportunities for “failure,” as singing.  It’s no wonder performers can be eccentric, sometimes unstable, and occasionally obnoxious. Looking back, I sometimes wish I’d spent less time worrying about who got the big lead in the musical and more time just enjoying myself. I’m sure I would have been a better friend—and a  lot more fun to be around!

What about you? Have you ever had a rival? Tell me about it in the comments (or just leave me a quick "hi!") and I'll enter you in a drawing for a signed copy of RIVAL *plus* a silver star necklace like the one Brooke wears in the book. I may throw some other goodies into the mix as well. The drawing takes place at 10 p.m. on Wednesday, Feb. 16!

 
 
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klt1128.wordpress.com on February 2nd, 2011 03:04 am (UTC)
Rival
As sad as this may seem, my younger sister Kari would be my biggest rival. We are only 18 months apart so growing up seemed to be a constant battle between Kari and I. Whether it was sports, academics, or our social lives, we were always competing. I am happy to say that over the past couple years, it has gotten a lot better.
Thanks for this chance to win Rival. I have been so excited to read it!
-Katelyn
ClioK8lynLT[at]aol[dot]com
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 03:53 am (UTC)
Re: Rival
Ah, then you'll love my next Rival-rama post, it's about sibling rivalry!!
Taryn AlbrightASwimmerWrites on February 2nd, 2011 03:07 am (UTC)
Oh yes, I had a rival. Her name was Melissa, and she was my best friend. (That's why I'm so excited for Rival. I want to see how closely it parallels my life.) We were both swimmers. Melissa was (and still is) the kind of girl who is socially oblivious, whereas I, as a writer, like to create drama. Maybe our rivalry was all in my head, but I don't think so. We were the two fastest girls on our team, and every race was a showdown.
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 03:53 am (UTC)
Ooh... it sounds like RIVAL was made for you! I'm interested to see if you find any parallels, too!
(Anonymous) on February 2nd, 2011 03:45 am (UTC)
Rival giveaway
Pu-leeeze enter me! I am dying to get my hands on your book!!! And to have a signed copy?! Oh! Gasp!
(Anonymous) on February 2nd, 2011 03:50 am (UTC)
Re: Rival giveaway
OOPS! Guess it would help if I left contact info huh! uniquelymoibooks(at)att(dot)net
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 03:54 am (UTC)
Re: Rival giveaway
You are entered, my dear! :-)
asherz86 on February 2nd, 2011 03:01 pm (UTC)
I can't really say I've ever had a rival. I'm an only child, so no siblings to compete with, and I was really shy growing up, so I didn't really compete for a lot of things. The only rivals I have now are my friends from library school who are probably applying for all the same jobs as I am, but that's not a real rival in the true sense of the word.

Wow, good luck with your book launch! So soon now!!! <3
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 03:55 am (UTC)
That's actually awesome you didn't have a rival - I'm not sure they're all that good to have. But they do make for interesting novel conflicts!
Lucia PannacciLucia Pannacci on February 2nd, 2011 03:04 pm (UTC)
I'm currently attending a very demaning university, where people like Rachel are kinda the routine. The fight to have the best books, the best seat, the best sandiwich, the best whatever-comes-to-your-mind. It's like they always want to stay under the spotlight and I must say, sometimes I'd like that, too, but I just don't have the guts. I am the wrong kind of girl, or, as my best friend says, I'm not 'b****' enough. Sometimes I'd like to, but that's just not me.
I'm very shy and the fear of not measuring up with my parents' expectations has always been a heavy burden. I've been pretty smart in high school but I never actually looked out to be the best. Sometimes I've been sees like a weird girl cause I like reading more than going dancing (but I love that, too) and I'm looking for a position in the publishing world. But I have good friends, a nice family and lots of dreams in my pocket.
I am probably looking for my own spotlight, my own place in the world but I'm not gonna fight the world to have it. I guess I'm just gonna do my best and hope is enough!

And can't wait for the book! ;)
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 03:56 am (UTC)
You seem like Kathryn in my book. I'd be interested to know what you think of her. Hugs to you - that's got to be tough being surrounded by Rachels!
bethsfbtb.blogspot.com on February 2nd, 2011 03:10 pm (UTC)
My rival was actually my best friend. She was blond, blue-eyed, and skinny. About the only thing I had over her was that I could fill out a bra and she couldn't. But she'd bat those eyelashes and boys would come flocking. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was in college and we parted ways because the guys would always drool over her and completely ignore me. But, life always has a way of working itself out because I'm married with a wonderful husband and she's still single and looking.

beths0103 at yahoo dot com
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 03:58 am (UTC)
Oh wow, that sounds a little bit like the plot in RIVAL. I'm really happy you were able to find a great man - sometimes it's worth the waiting, no?
capen2 on February 2nd, 2011 03:13 pm (UTC)
YES RIVALS IN FRIENDS
Yearbook was my life in Highschool or so I thought.


Well my rival was my yearbook's editor she got the job over me and really rubbed it in everyones faces, she was bossy and loud thats why she got the job I guess teachers don't like mellow laidback leaders. At first yeah I was bitter but she just went from one of my good friends and boss to crazy micro manager Glitter on every page psycho. I just couldn't stand her when were in that class and she did end up demoting me but after that I just drop the class, Yearbook used to be something fun to do something I took pride in but after all the drama and chaos I just did not want to be there.


So in the end I'm happy I left I was able to enjoy my Senior year without the unnecessary stress and yes the class went on without me but the book was a piece of crap so karma always comes back to bite you in the you know what.
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 03:59 am (UTC)
Re: YES RIVALS IN FRIENDS
I've been in those situations, too, where you're just like, "whatever, it's not worth the drama." Good for you for moving on, I know how hard it can be when you're in a relationship like that!
Mimosa Stimulusmimosastimulus on February 2nd, 2011 03:39 pm (UTC)
In highschool I was on the track team. I ran hurdles. My P.E. coach "discovered" my ability to do well at hurdles when he was forcing us to run them one day in class freshman year, and insisted that I sign up for track because I was better at it than another girl in my class who was the team's hurdler. When we went into the locker room, she told everyone her time was better than mine even though it wasn't. It was kinda weird, but I ignored it. The following year I decided to take part in track & field, since coach had suggested it and I had some friends on the team who did other events. I won our first meet, but at school on Monday that girl was telling everybody that she beat me. I don't know why, since the times were in the newspaper. Later in the year, she told our coach that I didn't want to do hurdles anymore. He came to ask me about it and I had no clue what he was talking about. It was bizarre! There was one meet in which she actually tried to knock me down during the race. I did my best to ignore her while my friends did their best to complain loudly about her behavior. Eventually she quit track after a while of being beat out for the top two spots (only the top two from each team could compete) by myself and a senior. I suppose that if a deluded, vindictive person who is hell bent on destroying you out of jealousy and spite could be considered a rival, then I had one of those! She never beat me in meets or in practice, but I suppose she felt that I took something away from her. If she had used that as motivation to work harder, then maybe it could have been less one-sided and we could have had a real rivalry. That is the closest thing I had to one though. My friends and I were all pretty different regarding what we excelled at, so we never really had to feel like we were competing against each other.

Anyway, thank you for the chance to win a copy of your book! I am impatiently awaiting its release because it looks awesome!

mimosastimulus[at]gmail[dot]com
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 04:01 am (UTC)
I think you hit on it when you say she should have used you as motivation to work harder and improve - that's how rivalries can be good, I think. If they help you do something you love better, then there's a positive. Too often, though, they seem to bring out the worst in people.
(Anonymous) on February 2nd, 2011 03:41 pm (UTC)
Silly, but I've had this stupid rivalry going with this other basketball mom.

Shameful!
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 04:02 am (UTC)
Ain't no shame in that - mom rivalries can be some of the most intense. I've had them!

Just goes to show that we don't *really* grow up when we leave high school. ;-)
diaryofacambridgestudent.wordpress.com on February 2nd, 2011 05:40 pm (UTC)
As bad as it sounds my ultimate rival is my best friend, even though she doesn't know that. Its not like she's my rival all the time because i love her but there are also those times when i want to outdo her in certain things. I feel bad for feeling this way but since when have we had a control on our emotions. If its not studies, its clothes and other things - but its not like that all the time. I know she's better than me in certain things and i am better than her in certain things. Its the way we've been made, you excel in different aspects.

Can't wait for your book to come out!
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 04:03 am (UTC)
I think that's natural, and OK, but it can probably be confusing, too. I wonder if you'll find that the relationships in RIVAL remind you of you and your friend. I'd be interested to hear!
Lori WiddisonLori Widdison on February 2nd, 2011 06:23 pm (UTC)
Rival Giveaway
Hi! :o) One of my best friends in high school was named Sara Bennett! Small world!
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 04:04 am (UTC)
Re: Rival Giveaway
That's so funny! It's actually a pretty common name; in fact there's an Australian romance writer named Sara Bennett!
Christi Herron AldellizziChristi Herron Aldellizzi on February 2nd, 2011 11:21 pm (UTC)
I don't think I've ever really had a rival...my brother and I didn't get along for about 20 years, but we weren't really rivals--we just hated each other! And as for school, most of the students were upper-middle class, and we were not, so there was a lot of THAT, but again, it wasn't really a rivalry. I dunno, I usually skip all the effort of a rivalry (it can be really exhausting!) and go right to disliking someone (so much easier!). :o)
sbennettwealersbennettwealer on February 3rd, 2011 04:04 am (UTC)
Ha! I like your strategy - saves a lot of emotional energy!
e: s; it's all i doineedsafe on February 6th, 2011 06:57 pm (UTC)
Hmm, I don't think I ever had a rival at my school. I'd try to be better than the rest of my class and get good grades but it was never like a competition with any particular person.
book_obsessed_2book_obsessed_2 on February 6th, 2011 11:16 pm (UTC)
I was on my dance team in high school and we were all very competitive with each other!
mysecretagentmysecretagent on February 15th, 2011 01:29 am (UTC)
I've never actually had a rival, but I think that's why I like reading about them so much!
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